I have been THINKING!!
Thinking about all that is going on around us. I am not talking about the rape case, the murder case and other gruesome crimes we have witnessed recently. I am talking about how we as a society are rapidly becoming oblivious to our surroundings.
I very strongly believe that the advent of social media (and other technology making communication”easy”) has taken us away from everything else. We are living in times when people can have fully wholesome lives and hundreds and hundreds of Facebook friends (or chat friends or Twitter followers) without actually having a single “friend”. I want to use this article to request all of us to stop and think for a moment. The true loss is HUMAN TOUCH. All scientific research has shown the importance of human touch, but I think its not a subject for scientific research anymore. We are not talking about how lack of touch impacts an orphan. We are talking about how lack of touch impacts the basic foundation of our society. Obesity, diabetes, heart ailments, all appear smaller when compared to this issue.
But, what’s the problem with that?
Growing up, “older” people kept talking about why kids shouldn’t play violence based video games… why we shouldn’t watch very violent movies and try to do everything to protect us. Growing up, I always wondered why? We still used to play with our friends, we still used to tease each other, we still felt the impact of human touch. We still knew what it is like to grow socially. But now, we are losing that basic essence of living.
So, where are we? Well, the first approach to solution is to identify the problem. Lets talk, discuss, share and put our heads together to resolve what I perceive is one of the toughest battles we would need to fight. I will love to hear your feedback, and continue this discussion.
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PS: Before the social media police gets to me (with a name like Kapil, it is always a danger), let me put a disclaimer. I am the CEO of a social media agency (www.omlogic.com) and my livelihood depends on people spending more and more time on Facebook. The views put here are mine as a human and only as a human. 🙂